Purgatory is just a click away

Posted by on Oct 25, 2008 in Personal | No Comments

I thought my compulsive Facebook checking would ebb naturally after a month or so.  It has not.  I now have 109 “friends” and am getting kind of competitive about it.  There are a selection of people gathered from almost every phase of my life, like the strangest and not necessarily the most fun cocktail party ...

Making a fortune on adultery

Posted by on Oct 21, 2008 in Media, Politics | 3 Comments

It takes a lot of money to advertise on CNN.  I’ve been watching Anderson Cooper off and on, interspersing his show with Matthews, Olberman, and Maddow on MSNBC.  The ads that run between segments on CNN are usually paid for by energy companies, claiming that they are investing in alternative energy sources while slipping in ...

America’s ‘Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner’ Moment

Posted by on Oct 21, 2008 in Personal, Politics | No Comments

The Academy Award-winning movie “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner” (Best Original Screenplay and Best Actress), starring Katherine Hepburn, Spencer Tracy, Sidney Poitier, and Katharine Houghton, came out in 1967, causing a stir because of its theme of interracial marriage between an African American man and a Caucasian woman.  It’s a great movie but one that ...

Mama needs Obama

Posted by on Oct 17, 2008 in Personal, Politics | No Comments

My 60-year-old mother is complaining about the excruciating pain in her leg.  She’s been in mounting pain for months, and on and off for years.  A woman loathe to take pain medication on top of her daily prescriptions to control hypertension, diabetes, and high cholesterol, she recently took over a week’s supply of Vicodin.  She ...

The most popular kid on the preschool playground

Posted by on Sep 17, 2008 in Personal | No Comments

My younger child just started preschool, the same one that his older sister just graduated from.  It’s a developmental school, which I take to mean gentle and child-centered, though I don’t want to sound hung-up on labels.  Just as I was last time, when my daughter “transitioned” to preschool, I am the last parent there. ...

Middle-aged PDA

Posted by on Sep 16, 2008 in Personal | No Comments

My husband and I are an old couple.  While we are still shy of what everyone in their 30s and 40s defines as “middle aged” these days, we are nearing the center point of an optimistic life expectancy.  We’re an old couple because we’ve been together for almost half of our lives.  We are a ...

Mac lovin’

Posted by on Sep 16, 2008 in Personal | No Comments

I’m working on a Mac for the first time since about 1994.  In those days, I got the college special, a giant cube with a keyboard purchased at the start of the school year.  The ultimate in school supplies, the computer was supposed to make my senior thesis easier to write.  It would allow me ...

Leaving Los Angeles

Posted by on Sep 1, 2008 in Los Angeles, Personal | No Comments

This week we returned from our annual trip to see our families “back East” (as people in California call anything to the east of Phoenix). For the first time in 14 years in Los Angeles, I was not that thrilled about arriving in my adopted home. Maybe it’s the still out-of-control real estate, the nasty ...

Knick-knacks will be the death of me

Posted by on Aug 12, 2008 in Personal | No Comments

I just droppped off a whole station wagon’s backside full of goods at the Council for Jewish Women Thrift Shop in West Los Angeles. It’s tough for me to part with my things, even if they make me miserable. This is something I have inherited from two generations of packrat women before me (my mother ...

Where has all the leisure gone?

Posted by on Jul 30, 2008 in Personal | No Comments

One of the reasons I started this journal was that summers of my childhood and youth were always filled with books, sleeping late, just enough romance, aimless bike rides in deserted parks, and hours that stretched into weeks of delicious ennui. It was the truest form of down time I have ever had and will ...